allow waiting for metro to be torn down (#46620)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: https://github.com/facebook/react-native/pull/46620

The following error was thrown when the test `packages/metro/src/integration_tests/__tests__/server-test.js` was running on Metro:
{F1816961963}

It led me to investigate why don't we wait for Metro to be torn down.

Currently we close metro by closing the http server that it launches.
```
const httpServer = await Metro.runServer(/* ... */);
httpServer.close(callback);
```
While we can listen to the callback fired when the server is closed, it only covers one of the systems running internally in metro. The systems that are not covered are:
* File watchers
* File map workers
* Dependency graph
* Bundler

And many systems that were themselves listening to the above like "eslint file map" or the "dependency analysis".

**These systems are closed by us _after_ the server is closed.** This means that a listener to `server.on('close'` would only get the indication where these systems has started to close rather than actually got closed.
https://www.internalfb.com/code/fbsource/[17e03bc6bd86]/xplat/js/tools/metro/packages/metro/src/index.flow.js?lines=359-361

This diff introduces a way to wait for all of metro to be closed.

In this diff I use that new way of listening to Metro closure to get rid of the jest test warning mentioned above in `packages/metro/src/integration_tests/__tests__/server-test.js`:
```
  let serverClosedPromise;

  beforeEach(async () => {
    config = await Metro.loadConfig({
      config: require.resolve('../metro.config.js'),
    });

    let onCloseResolve;
    serverClosedPromise = new Promise(resolve => (onCloseResolve = resolve));
    httpServer = await Metro.runServer(config, {
      reporter: {update() {}},
      onClose: () => {
        onCloseResolve();
      },
    });
  });

  afterEach(async () => {
    httpServer.close();
    await serverClosedPromise;
  });
```

Changelog: [Feature] add `onClose` to `Metro.runServer` configuration allowing to wait for metro and all associated processes to be closed.

Reviewed By: huntie

Differential Revision: D61594124

fbshipit-source-id: e3c50ef986077503bce0caa42a9f9430efc65272

packages/community-cli-plugin/src/commands/bundle/buildBundle.js

@@ -140,7 +140,7 @@ async function buildBundleWithConfig(
       args.assetCatalogDest,
     );
   } finally {
-    server.end();
+    await server.end();
   }
 }