Previously we assumed if `--experimental-detect-module` is true, then
`--experimental-require-module` is true, which isn't the case, as
the two can be enabled/disabled separately. This patch fixes the
checks so `--no-experimental-require-module` is still effective when
`--experimental-detect-module` is enabled.
Drive-by: make the assertion messages more informative and remove
obsolete TODO about allowing TLA in entrypoints handled by
require(esm).
PR-URL: https://github.com/nodejs/node/pull/55250
Reviewed-By: Antoine du Hamel <duhamelantoine1995@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Jacob Smith <jacob@frende.me>
Reviewed-By: Rafael Gonzaga <rafael.nunu@hotmail.com>
